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Fruit of the Spirit | Week 8: Gentleness

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September 20, 2026

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Week 8: Gentleness

Galatians 5:22-23; Matthew 11:28-30

Big Idea: Gentleness is strength under control.

Gentleness is not weakness; it is choosing to be careful with people. Jesus described himself as gentle. 

  • When you are frustrated with someone, what is your default response?
  • Who in your life needs you to be gentle with them right now, and what would that look like?

📅 Sunday, October 4, 9:00 AM
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Adults – our parent breakfast is Sunday, October 4. We'll share what we've been teaching, where we're headed, and how you can stay connected to your teenager's spiritual life without losing your mind.
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